Are Iranian Women Amongst the most Disloyal, Self Centered Women in the World?


by Arjang011

Today, I saw another Iranian couple in Starbucks where the wife was treating the husband as if he is dirt, and amazingly enough the man was still treating her with respect.  That was the straw that broke camel’s  back; it’s been a while that I have been wanting to post my opinions on Iranian women, but something keeps coming up that leaves this task undone.  Today, I decided that this is it, no matter how little time I have, and how painful the whole thing is to me, I am going to start a blog in this respect.  I have been living in US for a couple of decades now, and in the last few years, I have become interested and have been studying the behavior of Iranian women here in US.

The couple I described above are not an isolated example of distasteful behavior of Iranian women; in fact, based on my last few years of my study of their behavior, I find Iranian women to be the most disloyal, the most treacherous, the most self centered, and at the same time the laziest women around.  I have so many stories of their disgusting behavior that I wouldn’t know which story to post here.  I’ll start by the story of their behavior in bars.

The bar story
A few months ago I had gone to visit an Iranian friend and he made me to go this bar.  I am not really that much into bars, but since he insisted, I went along with it.  My friend was a regular and soon we were surrounded by a few of his friends, both Iranian and non-Iranian.  There were 5 Iranian girls all in miniskirts, low cuts, and made up, that I was told were regulars.  Soon the non-Iranian friends started telling us about this and that Iranian girl going home with 2 or even 3 guys when the other Iranians were not around; and then started teasing my Iranian friends as to how come these Iranian girls are so easy with such low class men, but they hardly even hug the Iranian men there.  Let me tell you about these Iranian men there; they were all successful, clean, sharp guys; my friend being regular has more than enough of his share of being hugged and kissed by gorgeous high class non-Iranian girls there.

To me it was so upsetting that these non-Iranians were talking about Iranian women as if they are trash.  When we went back home, my friend told me that everyone knows that all those Iranian girls except one sleep around with any trash they can.   The kind of men that these girls seemed to be comfortable with, just about made me sick.  If they were interested in men who were better looking, more successful, cleaner, more intelligent than my friends in that bar, I would not have had any problem; but these girls were socializing with the kind who at best were construction workers, and grease monkeys.

The Marriage Story
In University, I had this Iranian friend who was extremely nationalist and studied electrical engineering with me.  In the last years of his Master, I noticed that he keeps approaching 3 different Iranian girls who were studying there as well; and I saw him being rejected when he approached any of those girls.  I am the type that won’t waste my time on a particular girl; I mean if a girl is not interested in me, she is history as far as I am concerned. So, I asked my friend how come he keeps insisting on going out with Iranian girls while there are plenty of girls around who would go out with him in a second.  He told me that he doesn’t want to waste his time on non-Iranian women, and on top of that he is marriage minded and prefers Iranian women so that if there is a chance they can get married.  A girl friend of mine who knew one of the Iranian girls said that she has told him that she is after rich men and preferably non-Iranian rich men.

In any case, these women rejected my friend so harshly that I almost severed my friendship with him since he kept insisting and I couldn’t take the fact that these bitches were humiliating him so much.

In any case, to make the story short, my friend now has a very successful company, and married to this Hungarian goddess who is so perfect that whenever I go to visit them, I keep looking down to make sure that I don’t even have a thought about his wife.  This has prompted her to ask my friend as to why I keep looking down when I talk to her.   As to those Iranian girls who rejected him, we still see and hear about two of those girls.  One of them is married to a black guy, and the other is married to an Arab man.  One lives in government housing and I won’t be surprised if I hear her to have become a prostitute.  The other one works two jobs to support her husband and kids, and although her husband can’t work, but can beat her up almost nightly; I don’t see her often, but most of the time that I see her she is wearing sunglasses to cover the black eye that her husband has given her.

Now, if these two women really were after rich, non-Iranian men, then what happened? This is a pattern that I see with many Iranian women. They play so hard to get with Iranian men; they ask for Mercedes and diamond ring before letting an Iranian guy even touch them; but just like those Iranian girls in the bar, they don’t have any problem sleeping with low class men who have no job, no education, and have no idea what soap is.  The next thing they know, no Iranian men would touch them, and they submit to marry those sweaty and smelly men they have been sleeping with.

Comparing Iranian Women with Other Women Specially Women from Middle East
I have this Arab friend who has in a few occasions have seen me here and there and practically forces me to go to his house for lunch or dinner without even calling his wife first.  I feel bad about this since you don’t know what status his house might be in or if his wife has made any food.  However, each time his wife opens the door, she is totally composed, dressed like hell, and waiting for his husband to come home.  A delicious Lunch or dinner, whichever is the case, ready in minutes of her husband getting home.  On top of that as soon as she finds out her husband has brought someone home, she finds an opportunity to go and change into pants.  Basically, she had prettied herself for her husband and as soon as she finds out her husband is not alone, she makes sure she is a lot less pretty.

Now, compare that to an Iranian woman.  If she is fat and ugly, then forget about it; she won’t care either way.  The lunch or dinner is probably not ready unless it is something sloppy.  If the Iranian wife is attractive, you can make sure that whatever she is wearing, she finds the opportunity to go and change into something far more revealing, far far shorter, and far far more low cut; she definitely adds more make up as well.

On the other side, you look at other women such as Far East women or as American call them, Asian women.  Despite the stereotype about Asian men that is around and we all have heard of it, you see Asian women mostly dating and marrying Asian men.  Yes, there are and there will always be some percentage that will date and marry others, but 9 out of 10 Asian women is dating and marrying Asian men.

What I’m trying to say is that almost any woman from any race or nation that you take is more loyal to her own kind and does far more than Iranian women to please her husband. I have this Iranian friend who is married to this Asian woman.  I don’t want to judge him, but he is not exactly successful or smart, and does not make much money; I look at his life and think what if he was married to an Iranian women?  And I can easily see that if he was married to an Iranian woman, he would have been divorced long long long ago.

Iranian women are just so disloyal, self centered, and objectionable, that they ruin the marriage in an instance if they are in even little discomfort. And please don’t come back and say that you know of Iranian women who are putting up with real bad husbands, and etc. etc.  There are always a percentage of women of any race or nation who are victim.  I am talking about how the majority of women behave.  Incidentally, the same Iranian women who get divorced from their Iranian husband in instance, will put up with non-Iranian husbands far far longer.

I have more stories for you that I will add in my future blogs, but for now, I think I have made my points about Iranian women.  Believe me this is painful for me to say and write.  I have always been on the belief that you must treat your own far better than you treat others.  Just like my friend who was just after Iranian women, there was a day that I only wanted to be around Iranian women.  I also believed, in the past, that we Iranians must marry each other to keep our race more pure.  So, this is no fun for me to write. But now, I have so completely lost any interest in Iranian women that I don’t even talk to them.  Whenever Iranian women approach me in places such as Starbucks, I reject them with extreme prejudice. Even when they are in distress, I don’t try to help them.   But the more that I treat them that way, the more that Iranian women try to talk to me.  I was in the library a few days ago, and there was this Iranian girl talking Farsi on her cell phone.  We were on different isles. I had to turn into her isle, but tried to move in a way that I don’t have to run into her, and she kept moving in a parallel path just hoping to run into me.  There have been many instances like this; the more that I reject these fools, the more they try to talk to me.   But I’m definitely done with them.  Want to have nothing to do with them, and refuse to even talk to them, let alone date them, or god forbid marry them.

Now, the main reason that I have posted this blog is not to describe my feelings towards Iranian women, but to open the eyes of Iranian men.  I see so many Iranian men who are still so respectful to Iranian women and tolerate such behavior.  I woke up long ago and have not dated or tried to date an Iranian girl for a long time; I wouldn’t even want to touch them.  Contrary to the view that Iranian women have been the victims in the Iranian society, it is in most cases the men who are the victim.  I am not talking about the government of Iran.  By the way, I have no love for any religion or the current Iranian regime; and I am highly educated and very open minded.  So, my opinions are not opinions of some right wing religious nutcase.

My final message is really to my Iranian brothers outside Iran; those in Iran are mostly stuck with Iranian women, whether they want it or not.  However, those of us outside Iran have other possibilities and do not have to put up with the objectionable behavior of Iranian women.  Just forget about them, and work on improving yourself.  I’ll briefly tell you what I did, and suggest you do the same.

For a few years, I tried to have as little socialization or need of women in general, but especially Iranian women.  I kept working on improving my job, my knowledge, my experience.  Now, I am one of the best engineers around; now women come to me, and that includes Iranian women.  Now, I am so confident, experienced, disciplined that I can easily do without women; but as usual the more that I don’t need and ignore them, the more they come on to me.  Now the hunter has become the prize that women want.  But one thing that I make sure is that I filter out Iranian women the same way that you filter out trash.  When Iranian women should have been a comfort to me, they were a pain.  Now that I am successful and so desirable, I would not waste myself and my time with any Iranian woman.

I will be very interested in any comment from my Iranian brothers to criticize me, or more importantly, how they feel about t this issue.  If Iranian women do comment, I will read it, but I couldn’t care less about what Iranian women have to say.



I was talking about this:

by Souri on

I bet he would visit a prostitute and I just worry what he would do to her afterward.

Maybe i did get it the wrong way??  No worry though, nothing important.

I Have a Crush on Alex Trebek

which supposition?

by I Have a Crush on Alex Trebek on

which supposition?


Ok Marge...

by Souri on

I was very upset too. but we can't analyze or generalize people from their words tapped on the keyboard. I didn't see that deleted comment either, but I can understand that sometimes our words exceed our thoughts....

The supposition on the prostitute example not well taken, honey.

I Have a Crush on Alex Trebek

No Toofan. Crediting him with a point of view on these women

by I Have a Crush on Alex Trebek on

means that he is rational. No. The women he is talking about? Which women Toofan? ALL this schmuck says is "Iranian women" this and that.

The only one who got anyway specific was jakarta and it's pointless too then - pile on "these women" all you want - so what? to feel good and aware of them? ok they are just dumb sluts. Then what? What are you? Smart and intuitive? These women are the binary in a system: sluts and playboys. That's how it goes. If you bash them, bash those old farts who buy them too.

I'm tired of this stereotyping of Iranian women, especially the ones who like to dress sexy, drink and dance. Maybe if we didn't generalize so much or have weird standards we wouldn't see women who go on sex and booze binges to meet rich guys?

Arjan is a sick man. Very sick. You did not read the other comments that were deleted here that were part of his angry manifesto. He's a time bomb. An iranian weapon of mass destruction. I bet he would visit a prostitute and I just worry what he would do to her afterward. 

p.s. the guys here are all very nice and I'd go on a limb and say they are gentlemen. Look at the comments here by them.

BUT the men who generalize and stereotype are usually frustrated or jealous that they CAN'T get those women who are after money. They announce their hatred of these "prostitutes" over and over. If you don't like them, don't go after them. There are many nice Iranian women and men. Lots. These guys and women are usually not lurking in night clubs and LOL library aisles staring at Arjang.. (the mental image of that was so weird)....



jealous jakarta

by Nader Mehrabi (not verified) on

Oh, wow, now any man is either gay or Jealous. Wow, I didn't know all my life spins around women. I must be dreaming all those hours that I spend on work and study. In case you haven't noticed, you are not the center of universe; otherwise, you wouldn't have time to be here and posting all day and night.

Honestly, given the behavior of our women, is it a surprise that we are so behind. Society requires participation of both sexes. When I look at women of other societies specially Asian, Mediterranean, and Middle Easters, they are like that crust that keeps the pizza together. When it comes to Iran, it is like we don't have that crust to keep the pizza together. Iranian women are so dysfunctional. As a result, the whole society has been prevented from getting anywhere near its potential. We really need the injection of new female blood into our society. I knew I was fortunate with my American gf, but now I am so extremely happy that I ever met her. Just the thought of having to deal with Iranian women is unbearable.

As I said, this weekend, she is gonna see a totally changed Nader. She is just too much of a lady to be treated anything but as the perfect woman that she is. Good luck guys with Iranian women.


Arjang,Iranian women love them or leave them!

by Marde erooni (not verified) on

If you like them for any reason,be it frienship or marriage you approach them and if they reject you for any reason or you are not getting along, just go right ahead and find a friendship or whatever you are looking for in other nationalities or races,but do not go around calling them names.It is not polite.


Just an idea for Arjang and the Iranian women hating him

by Toofantheoncesogreat (not verified) on

Has it occurred to both of you that:

The type of women Arjang writes about, the silicon fake girls that hump Danny Two Tooths, are not the same iranian girls that sit and blog and discuss politics on the net, on this site for example?

I feel like two decent sides are beating each other, while the crappy women, who dont even know this debate exist, or whom most likely dont have the intelligence to think this far, will go out tonight and hump Leroy Smallball Enricson no matter how much you hate each other here on this blog..

My point is: Iranian women, you have to admit he has some points about Iranian women living abroad. Arjang, you have to admit that you are being a generalizing prick that sinks so low, you offend your own mother just to debate a point.

I Have a Crush on Alex Trebek

jealous jakarta

by I Have a Crush on Alex Trebek on

i liked your story. it's fascinating. 

but what I like more is that to get what YOU want, booty, you must lie just like those women lie. It's a dumb cycle. Your story has nothing to do with this creep's story. LA is full of whores and gold diggers of BOTH sexes. It's not anything to do with "persian girls" and their short skirts or affinity for plastic surgery.  

If you didn't have those slutty women in tight outfits and fake boobs, what the HELL would you go to those clubs for? to hang out with old men? what would straight men in LA have to aim for? It's always about the women, and the sick author of this blog sounds totally frustrated. I wonder if he's a virgin?



by jakarta on

This is hilarious. Reminds me of something that happened to me recently.

Your boy Jakarta was in a club called "area" in the posh part of LA and on the dancefloor he saw three stereotypical LA Persian golddigger types: fake blonde hair, fake nose, huge fake breasts, short skirt, plenty of cleavage, etc. Anyway so I saw them walking by, thought I might hollar later on. Later in the night I walked by the VIP area and one of hte tables was dominated by these really old british men. I couldn't believe it. One of hte guys had grey hair and was wearing a grandpa sweater. What are these guys doing in a club?! Anyway I shook my head in confusion and walked on...

Still later in the night I walk by this area again and I see two really fat british men, i'd say age 50ish sitting on the couch of that VIP table. And lo and behold I notice two of those Persian girls from earlier giving them lapdances! One of hte guys was glued to his seat looking like he was about to have a heart attack...the other was literally asleep. The couches were guarded by a huge Samoan bouncer and another old British man. Now as I gazed at my hamvatan sisters dancing lewdly for these brits two things were awakened in me: first my horniness given their sexy moves, and secondly strong nationalist dare these anglos who once pillaged our land's treasures and oil and imperialized our country now take advatnage of our women! Never! And so I took action...

I went up to the bouncer and said: "Hey, is this the line for lap dances?" He and the old british guy chuckled and we started joking around. Within minutes I befriended hte old man, he told me they were night club owners in Bangkok and they were on vacation now. The Persian dancers saw me in cahootz with this guy, they were falling into my trap. After a few mintes of chit chat I go up to the couch where the girls were dancing and I grab the arm of the girl dancing for the sleeping man, I said "Hey, if he's sleeping you can dance for me!" She was gazing at me as I talked to that rich night club owner and probably assumed I was one of them, so she nodded and said "Come over, baby". So I squeeze my way in and have a seat. The girl comes up to me and starts dancing sexily for me...I pulled her closer to me to sit on my lap like the other girl was doing for her old man. She did and put her face close to mine and said "So how much do you got?" Now mind you I had $10 in my pocket which I was planning on spending on In-n-Out Burger after the party. But I told her "I got so much money I don't even know what to do with it" She smiled approvingly and began getting freaky. It was a fun time and I was feeling her up and such and she asked me "How much are you worth?" I told her "Lets put it this way, my pocket is filled with hundreds, I'll give you whatever you need" all the while thinking about the mouth-watering double double cheeseburger I wanted to purchase with all my assets. I'll skip through the juicy details but I didnt get to go as far as I wanted because it turns out I pulled this caper off too late nad minutes into it when it was getting good the club was closing...the other girl dragged her friend away so they could find the third and then leave...alas the one who got away. I always think about the romance we shared...

ps just to clarify I never lie or deceive, but in this case the girls were asking for it, so I treated them like the garbage they were :)


Now let's get even

by GettingEven (not verified) on

Post a few comments on the other blog - Iranian women are precious - just to knock this trash off the most discussed section. Get to work, everyone!


look what you all have done!

by AnOberservation (not verified) on

Now we have to look at this trash for a few days/weeks in the most discussed section. You all should have ignored this blog in the first place.



by Cyrus_ (not verified) on





To American Marine

by Sanaziii (not verified) on

Dear Marine, please give me the contact info or your unit info and I would gladly contact your command and make sure you get a nice spanking by your commanding officer for this stupid comment of yours. LOL

Kaveh Nouraee

American Marine

by Kaveh Nouraee on

Anytime you want to see what an Iranian man will amount to, come see me.

I live close to Camp Pendleton. By the time I show you what this Iranian man amounts to, you'll go back to your base and call your CO "Mommy".

That's because I'm going to teach you who's your Daddy.



by Majid on

Thanks for the comment about my avatar, that was very nice of you Sir!

We can share my avatar if you're too khejalati to use yours...LOL



PS.  American marine: put it's door buddy

PPS. PMK : I never had a third brother named PMK, your mom lied to you about who your real father was!  

anonymous fish

hey! american marine...

by anonymous fish on

get your butt over here and let me smack you upside the head!  and yes sir, i do have the right to talk to you this way.  my son is an american marine and he would NEVER disrespect himself or the United States Marine Corp in such a way. 

do not mess with this marine mom!!!!


anonymous fish


by anonymous fish on

i don't know about souri khanoom but as for me... i  TOTALLY dig masculine energy.  :-)

and i never said you were wrong.  that would imply some form of intellectual debate between right and wrong.  i merely implied (but will stately clearly now) that you are one sad sad individual.  now, pick your toys up and go to bed and let the grownups talk.  :-0


I don't know much about Iran, but

by American Marine (not verified) on

But obviously Iranian men get what they deserve. Even when a man steps up to the plate, Iranian men are not there to support him, but there are a lot of them who actually lick the behind of their women, or censore him.

I feel sorry for you Iranian men. You will never amount to anything.



by capt_ayhab on

You would love living in Saudi Arabia, take a look at this, you kind of women.

[Saudi princess pushes for ban against female drivers to be lifted]



capt_ayhab [-YT]



by capt_ayhab on

You are too much of a lady, and I am too much of gentleman[self appreciation] for me to repeat what he said.

Trust me the kid was way out of line.


capt_ayhab [-YT]


My sister Souri, My brother Mageed and My sister AF

by PMK (not verified) on

Thank you all for sharing,

I felt the vibration of your anger toward masculine energy, I just don’t’ know why. You have told me that I am wrong, but you haven’t told why you are angry. I was just being fully self expressed.

As always,

We are glorified gender, we don’t have to apologies.

anonymous fish

God, Marge

by anonymous fish on

you're scaring me now.  you're right.  aside from the humorous aspects of his obsession, you will notice that his grammar and writing skills have deteriated as well, thus indicating a loss of control.  it's been fun AND funny but i think this guy might be serious now!!

i know "nothing is sacred" and all that, BUT... can this guy be identified in any way?

souri...  it's just a sick curiousity.  do you know the term "rubber necking"?  it means when there is an accident and people slow down to look at it (usually causing another accident in their stupidity).  i just want to get all shocked and disgusted by his comment. :-0

i agree... i loved majid's 7/11


Agha Majid

by capt_ayhab on

I actually love what you have done with your aviator. being honest I was gonna do it myself.

khejalatim o rom nashud.


capt_ayhab [-YT]



by Majid on

You're absolutely right, this person is full of hate, he hates everybody, this time it's Iranian women's turn.

I bet anything he hates "himself" as well, I bet he stares in the mirror every morning and says......"what the hell are YOU looking at? you mother efer! I hate you! followed by couple slaps on his cheeks before he leaves for starbucks to hate everybody there.

You're right, he needs to be under watch.


Masochism is a psychological disorder

by golnaz (not verified) on

definition: Masochism refers to sexual or non-sexual gratification from receiving the infliction of pain or humiliation.

Given you wrote this:

Please do leave me hateful messages. God, I love it. ... arjang

I knew there was something wrong with you. You are in to masochism, and probably suffer many other unresolved childhood issues spilling into your adult life and ruining it for yourself. Seek help, if you haven't done so already. You're sad.


Oh this blog is hilarious :)))

by Anonymousmoi (not verified) on

I love all the comments left here. Arjang sounds a lot like Hajiagha, is there any relation?

I Have a Crush on Alex Trebek

Tell us the URL of your new site. I will report you.

by I Have a Crush on Alex Trebek on

You seriously exhibit all the textbook symptoms of a domestic abuser/future serial killer. Google Buffalo Bill or youtube him. You'll find you're looking in the mirror. 

I was fine until I noticed the anger and ALL CAPS. People like you MUST be under close observation. Hate is hate. Whether its toward Jews, Iranians, Women or children. You are an abusive character. 



by Persian Princess (not verified) on

Just nonsens!!


Not to Arjang...but to all other users

by Souri on

"I'll move my blog to wordpress and other worthy blogs where they know something about the freedom of expression"

Arjang is lucky to see his so called blog posted here. In the "wordpress??" or other website, they don't allow such a BS to be posted due to the "Racist & sexist Language"


One last message to all trashy Iranian women

by Arjang011 on

Don't worry, here they might censor my  messages, but I plan to start a site for just that matter to communicate my messages to all Iranian men. Yeah, I can back up the IQ of 16o. I can have a great site up and running in less than 2 days.  See you all airheads there.  Please do leave me hateful messages.  God, I love it.