Today, I saw another Iranian couple in Starbucks where the wife was treating the husband as if he is dirt, and amazingly enough the man was still treating her with respect. That was the straw that broke camel’s back; it’s been a while that I have been wanting to post my opinions on Iranian women, but something keeps coming up that leaves this task undone. Today, I decided that this is it, no matter how little time I have, and how painful the whole thing is to me, I am going to start a blog in this respect. I have been living in US for a couple of decades now, and in the last few years, I have become interested and have been studying the behavior of Iranian women here in US.
The couple I described above are not an isolated example of distasteful behavior of Iranian women; in fact, based on my last few years of my study of their behavior, I find Iranian women to be the most disloyal, the most treacherous, the most self centered, and at the same time the laziest women around. I have so many stories of their disgusting behavior that I wouldn’t know which story to post here. I’ll start by the story of their behavior in bars.
The bar story
A few months ago I had gone to visit an Iranian friend and he made me to go this bar. I am not really that much into bars, but since he insisted, I went along with it. My friend was a regular and soon we were surrounded by a few of his friends, both Iranian and non-Iranian. There were 5 Iranian girls all in miniskirts, low cuts, and made up, that I was told were regulars. Soon the non-Iranian friends started telling us about this and that Iranian girl going home with 2 or even 3 guys when the other Iranians were not around; and then started teasing my Iranian friends as to how come these Iranian girls are so easy with such low class men, but they hardly even hug the Iranian men there. Let me tell you about these Iranian men there; they were all successful, clean, sharp guys; my friend being regular has more than enough of his share of being hugged and kissed by gorgeous high class non-Iranian girls there.
To me it was so upsetting that these non-Iranians were talking about Iranian women as if they are trash. When we went back home, my friend told me that everyone knows that all those Iranian girls except one sleep around with any trash they can. The kind of men that these girls seemed to be comfortable with, just about made me sick. If they were interested in men who were better looking, more successful, cleaner, more intelligent than my friends in that bar, I would not have had any problem; but these girls were socializing with the kind who at best were construction workers, and grease monkeys.
The Marriage Story
In University, I had this Iranian friend who was extremely nationalist and studied electrical engineering with me. In the last years of his Master, I noticed that he keeps approaching 3 different Iranian girls who were studying there as well; and I saw him being rejected when he approached any of those girls. I am the type that won’t waste my time on a particular girl; I mean if a girl is not interested in me, she is history as far as I am concerned. So, I asked my friend how come he keeps insisting on going out with Iranian girls while there are plenty of girls around who would go out with him in a second. He told me that he doesn’t want to waste his time on non-Iranian women, and on top of that he is marriage minded and prefers Iranian women so that if there is a chance they can get married. A girl friend of mine who knew one of the Iranian girls said that she has told him that she is after rich men and preferably non-Iranian rich men.
In any case, these women rejected my friend so harshly that I almost severed my friendship with him since he kept insisting and I couldn’t take the fact that these bitches were humiliating him so much.
In any case, to make the story short, my friend now has a very successful company, and married to this Hungarian goddess who is so perfect that whenever I go to visit them, I keep looking down to make sure that I don’t even have a thought about his wife. This has prompted her to ask my friend as to why I keep looking down when I talk to her. As to those Iranian girls who rejected him, we still see and hear about two of those girls. One of them is married to a black guy, and the other is married to an Arab man. One lives in government housing and I won’t be surprised if I hear her to have become a prostitute. The other one works two jobs to support her husband and kids, and although her husband can’t work, but can beat her up almost nightly; I don’t see her often, but most of the time that I see her she is wearing sunglasses to cover the black eye that her husband has given her.
Now, if these two women really were after rich, non-Iranian men, then what happened? This is a pattern that I see with many Iranian women. They play so hard to get with Iranian men; they ask for Mercedes and diamond ring before letting an Iranian guy even touch them; but just like those Iranian girls in the bar, they don’t have any problem sleeping with low class men who have no job, no education, and have no idea what soap is. The next thing they know, no Iranian men would touch them, and they submit to marry those sweaty and smelly men they have been sleeping with.
Comparing Iranian Women with Other Women Specially Women from Middle East
I have this Arab friend who has in a few occasions have seen me here and there and practically forces me to go to his house for lunch or dinner without even calling his wife first. I feel bad about this since you don’t know what status his house might be in or if his wife has made any food. However, each time his wife opens the door, she is totally composed, dressed like hell, and waiting for his husband to come home. A delicious Lunch or dinner, whichever is the case, ready in minutes of her husband getting home. On top of that as soon as she finds out her husband has brought someone home, she finds an opportunity to go and change into pants. Basically, she had prettied herself for her husband and as soon as she finds out her husband is not alone, she makes sure she is a lot less pretty.
Now, compare that to an Iranian woman. If she is fat and ugly, then forget about it; she won’t care either way. The lunch or dinner is probably not ready unless it is something sloppy. If the Iranian wife is attractive, you can make sure that whatever she is wearing, she finds the opportunity to go and change into something far more revealing, far far shorter, and far far more low cut; she definitely adds more make up as well.
On the other side, you look at other women such as Far East women or as American call them, Asian women. Despite the stereotype about Asian men that is around and we all have heard of it, you see Asian women mostly dating and marrying Asian men. Yes, there are and there will always be some percentage that will date and marry others, but 9 out of 10 Asian women is dating and marrying Asian men.
What I’m trying to say is that almost any woman from any race or nation that you take is more loyal to her own kind and does far more than Iranian women to please her husband. I have this Iranian friend who is married to this Asian woman. I don’t want to judge him, but he is not exactly successful or smart, and does not make much money; I look at his life and think what if he was married to an Iranian women? And I can easily see that if he was married to an Iranian woman, he would have been divorced long long long ago.
Iranian women are just so disloyal, self centered, and objectionable, that they ruin the marriage in an instance if they are in even little discomfort. And please don’t come back and say that you know of Iranian women who are putting up with real bad husbands, and etc. etc. There are always a percentage of women of any race or nation who are victim. I am talking about how the majority of women behave. Incidentally, the same Iranian women who get divorced from their Iranian husband in instance, will put up with non-Iranian husbands far far longer.
I have more stories for you that I will add in my future blogs, but for now, I think I have made my points about Iranian women. Believe me this is painful for me to say and write. I have always been on the belief that you must treat your own far better than you treat others. Just like my friend who was just after Iranian women, there was a day that I only wanted to be around Iranian women. I also believed, in the past, that we Iranians must marry each other to keep our race more pure. So, this is no fun for me to write. But now, I have so completely lost any interest in Iranian women that I don’t even talk to them. Whenever Iranian women approach me in places such as Starbucks, I reject them with extreme prejudice. Even when they are in distress, I don’t try to help them. But the more that I treat them that way, the more that Iranian women try to talk to me. I was in the library a few days ago, and there was this Iranian girl talking Farsi on her cell phone. We were on different isles. I had to turn into her isle, but tried to move in a way that I don’t have to run into her, and she kept moving in a parallel path just hoping to run into me. There have been many instances like this; the more that I reject these fools, the more they try to talk to me. But I’m definitely done with them. Want to have nothing to do with them, and refuse to even talk to them, let alone date them, or god forbid marry them.
Now, the main reason that I have posted this blog is not to describe my feelings towards Iranian women, but to open the eyes of Iranian men. I see so many Iranian men who are still so respectful to Iranian women and tolerate such behavior. I woke up long ago and have not dated or tried to date an Iranian girl for a long time; I wouldn’t even want to touch them. Contrary to the view that Iranian women have been the victims in the Iranian society, it is in most cases the men who are the victim. I am not talking about the government of Iran. By the way, I have no love for any religion or the current Iranian regime; and I am highly educated and very open minded. So, my opinions are not opinions of some right wing religious nutcase.
My final message is really to my Iranian brothers outside Iran; those in Iran are mostly stuck with Iranian women, whether they want it or not. However, those of us outside Iran have other possibilities and do not have to put up with the objectionable behavior of Iranian women. Just forget about them, and work on improving yourself. I’ll briefly tell you what I did, and suggest you do the same.
For a few years, I tried to have as little socialization or need of women in general, but especially Iranian women. I kept working on improving my job, my knowledge, my experience. Now, I am one of the best engineers around; now women come to me, and that includes Iranian women. Now, I am so confident, experienced, disciplined that I can easily do without women; but as usual the more that I don’t need and ignore them, the more they come on to me. Now the hunter has become the prize that women want. But one thing that I make sure is that I filter out Iranian women the same way that you filter out trash. When Iranian women should have been a comfort to me, they were a pain. Now that I am successful and so desirable, I would not waste myself and my time with any Iranian woman.
I will be very interested in any comment from my Iranian brothers to criticize me, or more importantly, how they feel about t this issue. If Iranian women do comment, I will read it, but I couldn’t care less about what Iranian women have to say.
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