I know I’m in the right place

What makes Golestan such a unique asset to Iranians

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I know I’m in the right place
by Natalia Barr
17-Mar-2010
 

I am passionate-borderline obsessed- with food. My philosophy: if you can make it, why buy it? I jump fences to pick lemons, I make my own apple cider vinegar, I own nine aprons, and I’ve been known to swoon over the vibrant leaves of my garden’s purple potatoes. I’m stubborn in my ways of healthy eating and I (used to) think white rice is akin to a bowl of sugar. However, in the past several months, I’ve learned not only how to tame my convictions, but that above all else, food is celebratory.

After graduating from Bauman College, a Nutritional Education and Culinary Arts school, I began an internship cooking lunches for an Iranian language immersion school. Golestan Center for Language Immersion & Cultural Education (Golestan Kids), located in Berkeley CA, teaches Persian (Farsi) to children ages 2 to Junior High School, and serves as a resource for bicultural families worldwide. In a country where first and second generation Persian speakers are becoming increasingly rare, Golestan stands out as the only daily Iranian language immersion program of its kind in the U.S.

Iranian culture is like many in that it has its own perfumed memories that can invoke a sense of nostalgia. For me however, the smell of shambehlileh (fenugreek) and golaab (rose water) don’t personally remind me of home, so I must confess I’m intimidated by preparing Persian dishes. For one, I am nobody’s Grandmother, and secondly, I have not one ounce of Iranian blood in me. I have poured over Persian cookbooks and come to the conclusion that if I actually lived at Golestan, then I could soak my rice in numerous salt baths for at least ten hours to achieve the distinguished flaky texture so true to Persian rice. I could brown, broil and bake lamb for several hours and get dizzy as wafts of dried limes, saffron and fenugreek creep up the staircase. Alas, I am learning to put my perfectionism aside, swallow my pride and attempt a two-hour version of the beloved ghormeh sabzi.

Iranian cuisine is a reminder that preparing food is an ancient art, not a trend that will eventually fade out of the human experience. This is part of why I love cooking at Golestan- because it connects me to a culture that, prior to six months ago, was completely foreign to me. Not only can I relate to the romantic relationship Iranians have with food (finally- my people!), but I have begun to see my own philosophy around food from an entirely new perspective. My appreciation for food comes from an urge to be connected to people and cultures - past, present and future. Whenever I knead bread dough or run out to Golestan’s garden to pick a handful of herbs, I can’t help but smile because I know that I’m just one of millions doing the same thing: Participating in a way of life that weaves all of our diverse cultures together.

Persian cooking, in particular, pays homage to the belief that food is a daily medicine that connects us to our community, culture, and environment. I make Sabzi Polo every Monday and invariably, I hear the children shouting “Polo, Polo!” I smirk, reminding myself that I am working with an audience who doesn’t hold back their opinions, and whose enthusiasm over rice affirms the notion that, this food they know and love is not only celebratory, but a means of gaining one’s trust. Naturally, I don’t want to let them down, and I feel honored by the privilege of their friendship. In fact, I believe I’ve found my way to the hearts of these children, one bowl of rice and yogurt at a time. Maybe one day, they can teach me how their grandmothers make Sabzi Polo.

I’ll never forget the first time I served brown rice at Golestan. It didn’t exactly go over well. I remember one teacher looking at me incredulously, asking, “This is rice?” Needless to say, nobody touched the brown rice. I remember feeling a bit defeated, but I had to remind myself that not everybody eats (or thinks) the way I do. Cooking for others, particularly children whom I know were not raised on Mac n’ Cheese, is a humbling experience. I’ve had to learn that if I want to work in this intimate setting, and see the faces of whom I feed, then I musts find a balance and open myself up to the ways of Iranian culture. In other words, make white rice! And so, every week I bring the home made vegetable stock to a boil as a means of adding vitamins and minerals to the rice, which at least makes me feel better. I rinse the rice under warm water, rubbing the long, aromatic grains together between my hands. I watch the milky starch drain out from underneath the colander, and even I feel connected to a country in which I have never set foot.

My confidence in the kitchen has soared since I’ve been part of Golestan’s community. I can actually look people in the eye now and introduce myself as a Holistic Chef, because I truly feel that I am living my passion. I feel free to take risks, occasionally some of which I regret, but hey, Golestan is my extended family. I feel honored for who I am, not judged for what I do.

Each day when I walk through the tall wooden doors of Golestan, I am surrounded by life’s simple pleasures. Art, music, nature, celebrating culture and community, and most importantly, laughter. I have learned that communities are what we make of them, and that the only limitations are the ones we build in our minds. And for every morning that begins with a huge hug, a kiss on both cheeks, and an exuberant “Salaam Natalia Joun!” I’m enveloped in the feeling of family. I think this is what makes Golestan such a unique asset to Iranians and other families in the Bay Area, as they are part of an invaluable community of trust, encouragement, and love. I’ve become a part of Golestan’s community through a shared passion for food, and as my perspective continues to expand, I build a bridge of understanding between my own beliefs and those of the world around me.

When I walk down the stairs I leave thinking these kids don’t know how lucky they have it- but I know that they will know - and that you don’t need to be aware of how good you have it in order to reap the benefits. Furthermore, I love what I do. And if I can walk back up these stairs, day after day, with a smile on my face, then I know I’m in the right place.

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CantThinkOfOne

Much Respect

by CantThinkOfOne on

You are a wonderful gap that bridges our social divide.


Tara

This is great!

by Tara on

We need a school like Golestan in Southern California!

And kudos to Natalia!


pas-e-pardeh

THank you

by pas-e-pardeh on

What a wonderful story. Only in America.

About Fenugreek (or shanbalileh):  Many people cook their ghormeh-sabzi without shanbalileh because of the odor.  The reason for this odor is that shanbalileh is one of the rare ingredients, like garlic, that come through your skin pores.  (this is why it's good for you and cleanses your system).  We have a saying in persian "kallash booye ghormeh-sabzi mideh": His head smells like ghormeh sabzi, meaning there's fenugreek in his head instead of brains and you can smell it.

Persoanlly, I wouldn't cook ghormeh-sabzi without shanbalileh. 

Another fact about persian cuisine is having rice and meat everyday is a rather recent phenomenon.  In the not too distant past, everyone had soups and "aab-goosht" almost everyday for lunch and dinner.  These soups are a world of their own.  Just a piece of meat slow cooked with rice, barely, vegatables, fruits and herbs. 


MOOSIRvaPIAZ

awesome person, awesome place!

by MOOSIRvaPIAZ on

thank you for sharing your story.


Latina

Totally amazing.....

by Latina on

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solh


Arthimis

Happy NouRooz ...

by Arthimis on

Ms. Natalia Barr,

You are a Good Human Being, more power to you lady...

You just added "Good Eat & Good Read" to our Persian " Good Thoughts, Good Words and Good Deeds" :-)

Thank you for taking such a beautiful care of all those kids at Golestaan...They are truly very lucky and will understand perfectly one day, if not already! :-)

Happy Spring, Happy Nou-Rooz,

Love and Peace on Mother Earth.


Latina

Natalia jan

by Latina on

Thank you for sharing your extroadinary story with us.

Happy Nowruz!


Faramarz

You Are a Gem Natalia Barr

by Faramarz on

 

Your kindness and dedication to this school and the kids come across loud and clear. These little Persian kids and their parents are lucky to have someone like you taking care of them.

But now is the time to kick it up a notch in the kitchen!

How about some Tahdig for appetizer and Kabob Koobideh for lunch?

Nothing excites the young minds more than a plate of Chelo Kabob! And if they want to have some raw onions and egg yokes, please let them have it. It is in their genes!


Midwesty

You saved my day...

by Midwesty on

I did not know shambehlileh was called fenugreek. So now I know, I am puzzled why it has Greek in it?

Although Ghormeh Sabzi is a delightful dish but to its bad reputation we should credit the number of domestic disturbances as a result of wife/husband taking the aroma with her/him to bed.

A nice and delightful read.

Good luck!


MM

thanks Natalia

by MM on

We have a Ghormeh Sabzi here in Iranian.com as well, but instead of giving us rice, he feeds us information and videos as well as moderation of debates in the blogs.

You sound genuinely immersed (not literally) in your cooking.  Since the secret to a man's heart is through his stomach, I predict that you will make someone very happy, if not already done so.  From time to time, we exchange recipies here in IC.  You are welcome to contribute.

Great to have you around & Welcome.


hamsade ghadimi

natalia

by hamsade ghadimi on

you're too kind.  really. persian food is daily medicine?  maybe to some it's like a drug.  they need a fix with a chelo kabab, piaz, gojeh and doogh.  hardly medicine.  if you eat too much of it, then you really need some medication.  i'm glad that you like what you do and thanks for writing about it.


ahmad_

If only

by ahmad_ on

I was a child again and could attend the Golestan to taste your food.

Wishfull thinking, but I enjoyed your writing just the same.

Thanks.