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Khanom haa: I need to confess on MPD's deletion

On his recent blog he had posted a photo of me and my friend which I asked him to delete. He deleted the blog because his photo link could not be edited (I had replied to his comment). It's a long story, he deleted the entire blog so he wouldn't hurt any of his friends. Shab e shoma bakhair....I just needed to clear MPD's name before I fell asleep.

Holly aziz

Yes, that is also what I think. Sometime though, deleting a blog is a wise action (but it takes a really serious reason) for people to go trough that. 

The name of the blog was the one I gave you. You can check it. MPD, has posted it again (slightly different) under the same title.........

Of course w/o my comment this time ;)

Hi Souri

Good to see you again :)

What was the blog about and what did your comment say? I did see a comment a while ago from you addressed to him about you having left the site. It isn't that same blog / comment is it?Because that was quite a while ago now I think.

I think it sucks that people delete their blogs. The way I see it is when I write a blog on a public site and people take the time to comment it essentially becomes public property!  I don't have to continue reading or commenting if that's what I want, but I certainly am not going to be so selfish as to delete it.

Hi Holly jan

How are you?

That was not a big deal. Just when I read Monda's comment, it made me thinking of what I'd thought about MPD when he had deleted his third blog in 2 weeks.

Last one (that I know) was that blog "Kalantere Mahal" which he deleted after I'd commetned in it.

Then he reposted it with a disclaimer!

LOL,

I missed it!

What blog did he delete now?

I think may be he is obsessed with a compulsion to be in control ;)

Lack of confidence!

Hi Monda joon

I just pass by here. Hope you hade a wonderful TG.

I'd just clicked to the IC and saw your comment in the recent comment section. Thought I could answer your question :-)

At least this is the answer I think I know

Holly what's with MPD and deleting blogs?!

do you think it's his obsessive thing or the compulsive thing?

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Kharmagas loooool

thank you kharmagas, a tragic but moral story ;) 

Monda

Removed?! HollyUSA jan give me a link or something

I've been eyeing your blog every night and finally got in the mood to read it - And It's Removed?!

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Craig you could've still blogged about it back then.

You're not the only person whose account has been deleted.  There are a few people here whose account gets deleted and they open a new one.  Like you said, Iranians are knuckleheads so ...

When your account got deleted you could've opened a new account and don't tell me you didn't know.  Did you even try?  As for online sexual harrasment, that'd be something new for adult females on this website who were used to seeing Hajiagha's cartoons for years!  Wouldn't you say so?  What sexual harrasement?! What Vandalay industry?!

here all they can do is bully, censor and if all else fails deny access completely.?

Again with the bullying arguement? like RW didn't say something deserve retracting?  I don't believe you were totally innocent and as we say in Farsi; were a Muslim Teflon (choirboy)!  You probably said some things too.  You did. Yes. Yes you. You. (Deniro ;-)

Bullying with words in an online forum?  If that is the crime, victims should count their blessings.  I'm not saying it is a good thing but it is not something to cry me river baby!

Everything is sacred.

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Anonymouse

If you wanted to get into it you should have done it then. 

Bit hard, with a deactivated account!

The first time my comments started getting mass deleted was when I was in an argument with IRANdokht. I complained. My complaints got deleted as well. I left this site for 6 months, after explaining to a long time friend of mine who is a contributer here (I probably wouldn't even be here at all if it wasn't for her) what happened, and why I didn't want to have anything to do with this website anymore. That was long before my account got deleted.

Why wait
now and bring it up more than a year later. 

I've brought it up with IRANdokht many times. She was Niloufar Paris's tagteam partner in the incident where my account got deleted. The reason I'm only now bringing it up with Niloufar Parsi is that she hasn't been around for me to bring it up with her before. I just returned to this website last summer after the elections in Iran. NP seems to have thought that was a good time for her to take a break. Summer vacation maybe?

And the only reason I got into so much detail this time, is I only saw that email from JJ recently. Rosie sent a message to the email attached to this account, which is an inactive email address. The email I normally use is attached to my deactivated Iranian.com account. So, I just came across that email from JJ while I was looking for Rosie's. (by the way thank you to everyone who wrote supportive emails to that account! I wasn't ignoring you, I just never saw those emails!)

Anyway, so I just found out I was accused of sexual harassment. And I was not at all happy. I'm still not. That's way beyond insult.

In contrast people are being killed and tortured in Iran for saying anything.  It is just no comparison.

Actually, I think there's a pretty direct comparison between the way some Iranians behave on this website and the way some Iranians behave in Iran. The only difference is that here all they can do is bully, censor and if all else fails deny access completely. Oh, and lets not forget the false accusations! Do you really believe there's any difference between that mentality and the mentality of a regime thug who thinks dissdents belong in prison?

But as I've mentioned many times... I'm not Iranian. The way Iranians behave here doesn't make any difference whatsoever to my life. I have a choice of either putting up with it, or not putting up with it. And sometimes even that choice gets made for me.

OK, enough blah blah blah. I just wanted to explain why I have such a short fuse towards... certain people... on this website.

OH, and that crack by Little Tweet was a bit hard to take, since it's so similar to how I got deleted off this website last time.

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Fouzol Bashi, here is the complete story

I had a bite of Sag, Sag joftak zad, shepesh oftad:

//www.buzzle.com/articles/horsefly-bites-and-...

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Yaftam!

Mesleh inkeh shepesh az in sag koochikeh oftadeh bood! Besh bar khord!

loooool

;-)

With your great sense of humour you will appreciate this joke

mordam az khandehhhhh

Good.     ;-)

Craig maybe you made some insensitive comments, I don't know.

If you wanted to get into it you should have done it then.  Why wait now and bring it up more than a year later.  Abusive people and bullying in this website IS bogus. We live in America and are writing on this website. If you (not you per se :-) don't like a news item, leave it alone.  Each piece of news item has a link to somewhere else.

In contrast people are being killed and tortured in Iran for saying anything.  It is just no comparison.

Everything is sacred.

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Anonymouse

Whatever the reasons or comments, it is ultimately for JJ to decide whose accounts to close. Sometimes people get into a pissing contest
with him and forget who is the boss!

I don't forget who is the boss. It was JJ who sent the email to me explaining why my account was deleted. Either JJ thought I was sexually harassing Niloufar Parsi (in which case I'd like to see him explain how he came to that conclusion) or Niloufar Parsi told him that I was sexually harassing her, and he believed her. In which case I'd like to see her explain.

Personally, I don't appreciate being accused of such a thing. Not sure how you would feel about it, but I assume you wouldn't be a happy camper. There's not much worse that a woman can say about a man in the United States. 

Anyway, if he chooses to use his boss-status to delete this account instead of explaining why he sent me an email which accused me of sexual harassment then I guess my dilemma about how to handle abusive people on this website will be solved, right? ;p

Shepesh

That's excellent advice! I've never been any good at ignoring it when people try to push me around. I have trouble even seeing other people getting pushed around without saying anything. I've given up on this website several times because of the abusive bullying. I think my account got deleted before Obama was elected, and you can see when I created this replacement one. Since I don't be able to stick to my resolve not to be hang around this place, maybe I should just try to ignore the problem people. Problem is that a lot of the decent people have either left entirely or they don't participate much anymore. Oh well. I tell you, though... when an insider here can accuse somebody she doesn't like of what amounts to criminality and have that person's account removed, that's a major problem. One that shouldn't be ignored. No matter what I do in the future on Iranian.com, that's always going to be an issue for me.

Craig the only person responsible for deleting accounts is JJ

Whatever the reasons or comments, it is ultimately for JJ to decide whose accounts to close.  Sometimes people get into a pissing contest with him and forget who is the boss!

The whole idea that what we write on this website is bullying, harrasing, being vicious and all is bogus.  JJ wouldn't allow such a behavior.  I think :-)

Besides when you (not you per se) get tangled with "bullies" you can't cry foul. But bullying others while claiming others are bullies is what we call in Farsi; taking the forward hand, so you don't fall behind!

Everything is sacred.

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By the way

I think making a false accusation of sexual harassment is very relevant to the topic of this thread. Do you want to explain why you told people I was sexually harrassing you, NP? Unfortunately, all your evidence againt me got deleted because every comment of mine in that thread got deleted, but maybe you can summarize? I can provide documentation on what constitutes sexual harrassment if it would help!

Ms. Parsi

Ms. Parsi,

Regretfully I have failed you, by not being arround to at least lend my voice to your voice of reason. Yet you were kind enough to see my point.

My failure been I rarely get time to read on Sundays, let alone being able to concentrate and leave comments. When I saw how you were being attacked for [SPEAKING YOUR MIND], the whole hypocritical view of this entire blog became ever more obvious to me.

As you see, everyone else can speak their mind, no matter how vicious and unjustified they get, except ones who try to stay objective and fair, in this case yourself. >:-|

And no, I am not having a ball at all, because I see this blog for what it is: vindictive and one sides at best.

As I said earlier, You are one cool Banoo, and I admire your honesty and decency in  SPEAKING YOUR MIND, and having the courage to defend your views in civilized and fair manner.

Craig, You have yet another good point. Ms. Parsi by far, is the soul reasonable voice in this thread. This is obvious when you see how she is being attacked from all sides. Sad ain't it?

-YT 

Little Tweet

You're clearly being harassed by this ex person...

I don't consider that at all funny considering that's exactly the accusation NP made against me that got my account deleted the last time. In fact, she seems to have told people she claims not to know that I was *sexually* harrassing her. Which makes me wonder which planet she is on.

And speaking of that, how did you end up in this thread to defend NP? You haven't been in any of the other related threads. Somebody called for your help? Or is it just coincidence? Am I being paranoid?

Little tweet

thanks sweetie - perhaps just a drop to knock some sense into him?!

you know what really gets up his nose? ignoring him... :)