Shoharjoon and I had a fight last night.
It was my fault.
I'm sad.
And I lied.
He said "you're not the same girl I met, the girl who used to sit in 3 hours of traffic just to come and see me, you've changed."
And I disagreed. I said I was the same girl, that nothing had changed.
I lied.
I am not the same girl.
A lot has changed.
I am not the girl who used to sit in 3 hours of traffic just to see shoharjoon anymore. I've changed.
Today, I'm the girl who will walk 300,000 miles in heels just to feel his breath on her cheek when he says hello.
Today, I'm the girl who will give up 30,000 years of her life to make him smile for 30 seconds.
Today, I'm the girl who knows that 3 seconds with him is more fulfilling, more meaningful, more important than anything else in life.
Today, shoharjoon is not a date after 3 hours of traffic, today he is my best friend, my love, my mentor, today, he is the one I trust with my life, the one I respect the most, today he is my everything.
This is the girl I am today.
P.S.
Shoharjoonam, abry nasho, abry ke mishy hamash tu delam baroon miyad :(
badihamo bebakhsh.
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Beautiful
by barefoot on Fri Nov 13, 2009 03:13 PM PSTBeautifully written. You know what you have, and it's obvious you cherish it. My best to you and Shoharjoon.
Nice piece. However, if my woman walks in heels for a mile and
by Anonymouse on Fri Nov 13, 2009 05:16 AM PSTNice piece. However, if my woman walks in heels for a mile and then tells me my feet are killing me, I'd respond why the heck did you not wear your Nikes?! And if she says I did it for you, I'd respond now it is my fault?!
Kidding aside the more we stay away from fights the better we're off. By far the main reason couples breakup is "fighting too much". I think men in general hate fighting much more than women and don't have as much capacity to carry on a fight.
There were Studies that has shown that marriages where men "give in" to their spouses in arguments, have a happier married life! Go figure! However, this should not be the reason to force the man give in!
Everything is sacred.
It's only a small fight by
by Abarmard on Wed Nov 11, 2009 03:03 PM PSTDon't take what you say to each other too seriously. When angry, people say things that they don't really mean. I am sure that you both feel very similar towards one another.
Sometimes with busy lives, perhaps kids, family, and work, people don't spend as much time as they should, but that's OK. If it is important to spend time, then you will manage it.
Happy living.
shoharjoon:
by Ari Siletz on Wed Nov 11, 2009 03:02 PM PSTWhere did you find Sharareh? She makes an atheist believe in Heaven.
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by yolanda on Wed Nov 11, 2009 03:01 PM PSTI got blown away by the intensity of your love for your man:
today he is my best friend, my love, my mentor, today, he is the one I trust with my life, the one I respect the most, today he is my everything.
It is so romantic! Your man is a lucky guy 'cause you love him so much!
Thank you for sharing!
You have definitely found your soulmate
by Monda on Wed Nov 11, 2009 03:00 PM PSTand I hope you both know how lucky you are. ghadr e hamdigeh ro midoonin. It's natural to feel abry as long as you know the sun is around the corner in a smile, a sweet touch or in a safe ground that can hold either one's shorshor e baroon, az tahe del.
Nice share Sharareh jan.