Foul language

We definitely DO NOT like seeing our work turned into a toilet-paper by commentators


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Foul language
by Ben Madadi
31-Oct-2007
 

This is supposed to be a blog entry, but I'm passing it as an article.

Jahanshah, my man, why don't you make a change to this new system of yours???? Come on man! I do not have the time to go and set up a website and compete with you. Please! Just do it for my pocket's sake! I am not poor, but I definitely hate losing money, and I know I am going to lose money at least for a couple of years if I start to set up a blog-site for Iranians who are suckers enough to write for free after having thought something through for hours, or even days!

Come on man, for the sake of my money! And even after two years of losing money I am only going to have ice-cream-cash profit after having paid a couple of guys. There aren't so many Iranians out there anyway who can read English, or who actually READ something. I am pretty sure there are too many Iranians watching porn on the Internet... that is where the real money lies (I am not doing that, just for the record).

So, Jahanshah, you like money less than I do, but I like to write once in a while, please man, do something about this new system of yours. It sucks. Now, seriously speaking, just take my suggestion into consideration! I am a hard-working ambitious guy, but what I really really hate is to see my work being pissed upon by idiots. That I dislike, and I am not a masochist to go and do something I dislike. And that is why I have started to dislike writing for the website.

But there is some attachment to the Iranian community and you have done a good thing by giving us the possibility to keep that. So, listen to us, the dissatisfied contributors!
I can come up with all sorts of bullshit (did I ever use this word before? I doubt... it is nothing compared to what you will see in the comments-section just below) like saying that Iranians need my "rant" (quoting from previous comments), I write to do good to the Iranian community, I am going to come after you, I am going to kill myself etc.

But the matter of fact is, and it is a simple matter of fact, that I (and many others like me) LIKE writing, but we definitely DO NOT like seeing our work turned into a toilet-paper by commentators, some of whom either use foul language while others talk about completely irrelevant things just below our articles. That bothers me, and other contributors.

However there is also a positive side-effect to the simple fact that some people like me like writing. That positive side-effect is that the small number of Iranians who actually read something can see some glimmer of uncensored IRANIAN stuff, maybe quality stuff, go and talk about them with their friends and family, and maybe, just maybe, the Iranian community (and the country) becomes somewhat a more open-minded, more evolved and prosperous place before we all die.

My suggestion is to give the contributors more power, to accept or reject some, or all, comments. You know what I dislike most? It is not the comments with the foul language but what I can call SPAM COMMENT. Comments that come from people who have nothing to say, who argue about nothing, who are sometimes non-Iranian (completely out of touch with the area we come from), and I need to say this again, it is NOT about the things that are addressed at the authors that bother the authors (or I am guessing) but more about seeing your work turned into a piece of trash by some people.

People have something to say about my (or other peoples') articles, okay, fine, I am a liberal, I endear freedom of expression so much, but they can always write their own articles in which they can argue about their cause. Nothing wrong with that! What is wrong with giving the author the possibility to accept, or reject, comments?
I know how you feel, and how you see things Jahanshah, and I have seen websites that also have comments-section. That is great. But virtual newspapers that have comments enabled usually let only some comments through, ones that are relevant to the subject, and that do not contain foul language.

I have simply lost the inspiration, or desire, to write, because it is not a pleasure now. Maybe it will all settle but I think some technical adjustment to give the authors more power would not only increase the quality of the pages, but would also give the people more incentive to participate more intellectually. Quality work will always be quality work, and junk-yard will always be a junk-yard, and I think there are SO many Iranians who would gladly write their stuff for the Iranian community using their real names, therefore giving more value to the work, but I am also sure they deserve to have their work respected, and also their integrity untouched. It is not a big deal, and it is about respecting the person, the person that has not usually known respect in Iran or outside Iran, neither from authorities nor from others.


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I have nothing else to say than this poem by Omran Salahi:

 

همه کمبود محبت دارند
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شن در اندیشهء پاهایی ست
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دنبک و دف بزنند

من دلم میخواهد راه خودم را بروم
بر خلاف جهت و سمت فلش
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Natalia,

That's a keen observation, that is correct, in the name of religion, many savage acts have been committed. However, Mohammadism is the only one that formulates and documents all it WONDERFUL !!! techings into a book in some foreign language and tells you this is directly from GOD, and that this is the last set indtructions from the Almighty, and that whoever attempts to change it, questions it or if born into a Moslem family, or any convert that decides to change their minds about this "Religion !!", is called a "Mortad" and should immeidately be executed if he/she persists on being a non-believer after having been a member of this "Religion/Cult". Furthermore, Mohammad claims the name warship of Allah as the only god was his idea, you ever wonder why his father's name was "Abd-Allah", which means warship is for Allah? Study about this archaic idealogy in depth before converting, don't be like the other 1.5 Billion unfortunate souls who were born into this evil cult. Many of those poor people don't have the luxury of setting themself free, because as I mentioned, attemting "Ertedad" could be grounds for execution. Oh, and one more thing, did you know Mohammad's favorite wife "Aiesheh" was 6 years old when this 54 year old profit of god married her and 9 when the marriage was consumated :Meaning when she was molested by this pedophile.


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 Ben,

So sorry that I inadvertidly changed the topic of this page but I have created a blog to move the Islam and Muslim debate to that page.

Thank you for your patience and understanding on this matter.

Best wishes

Natalia (real name)


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Jamshid you are hilarious :o)

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 Jamshid,

Hello! I think you need to go back and read your comments to me. You keep telling me what religion not to be. Is that not that treating me as if I am incapable of thought. :o)

No, there is no shortage of religion. Actually there is an over supply of religion. Seriously my mother had us be Catholic, Protestant, Pentecostal, Assemblies of God, Apostolic, Southern Baptist, Independent Baptists....................the list just goes on and on........I must note that they were not necessarily in that order. :o)

 Now, not all Muslim men are domineering. Some actually make very good husbands and fathers. I don't think you should over generalize. So you are agnostic. I wasn't sure if you were an athiest, agnostic or spiritual. You know in 1999 I almost became an agnostic but that is another story or blog.

 

May I point out that Islam and Muslim rule also brought about great intellectual enlightment.

 

By the way no one has my soul but God, regardless of religion. My life and soul belong to him. Always has and always will.

By the way I did create the blog we spoke of. I think it is time to return this page to Ben as he has been such a good sport and host.

You know I knew you were going to drag the Spaniards and the Muslims occupation of Spain so long ago. I just knew it. You forgot to say the Rock of Gibralto which I might have mispelled.

Jamshid, I will be waiting for you at the blog I created. You know how to find me. Talk to you later and I look forward to our continued debate on the subject. Eventually one of us will give but we shall see.................

Natalia (real name)


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Re: Blog title

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"Towards" Islam excludes those women that are already in there and therefore suffering most. But I can see that for you and others who are thinking about converting to Islam (god forbid) it should be "towards" since you are not there yet.

 

You asked about my religion. I am a recovered, enlightented, reborn Iranian and proud to be ex-moslem. There are many recovering ex-moslems like me on this site. I consider myself an agnostic which is the closest thing I found to reason.


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Re: Natalia... Not so fast!

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Wait just a minute! You say: "for someone (i.e. Jamshid) who advocates that Islam likes to control women and thinks they are weak minded  you sure do treat me that way..."???

 

I treated you that way? when? You got yourself a challenge now. I challenge you to find one, ONE, evidence I treated you that way!

 

"mageh din ghahti bood?" is in reference to your possible conversion to Islam. It means "was there a shortage of religion?"

 

Yes, I agree with your remarks about some of the Hispanic men and the way they treat their women. But there is one big difference between the domineering Hispanic man and its die-hard moslem counterpart. The hispanic man does not do it because he is "commanded" by God to do so. He does it based on his upbringing. That is a big difference Natalia. The other difference is that he won't ask you to cover yourself head to toe under a rag. Also, when was the last time he would let his cheating wife be stoned to death?

 

Die-hard Hispanic macho cholo 1 - Die-hard Moslem fanatic 0.

 

One more interesting note for you to think about. Have you ever wondered why among Christians, the Hispanic men tend to be more macho and abusive than in other Christian countries?

 

Could it be because they indirectly inherited that behavior from the Spaniards? I think it had a definite role in it. And then have you tought were did the spaniards inherited THEIR machoism??? Could it be that they inherited it from the cultural inflence that Islam left behind in Spain when it was under moslem rule???

 

Die-hard Hispanic macho cholo 2 - Die-hard Moslem fanatic 0.

 

P.S. I do admire your voluntary work at the women shelters. That is nice and it means you have a big heart, the more reason for me to save your soul from Islam.

 


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Jamshid: Interesting.............but I do not think so......:o)

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 Okay, Jamshid reality check. In my culture you don't tell a woman what to do unless you are married to her and last time I checked it was not the case. Ha! Ha! I think in Islam you also have to be married to the woman to boss her around. By the way the reality of it all even when I convert to Islam I will be a slightly modern version of it. Christianity has been too much a part of me and not to mention so has the US. Did I mention that I used to cover my head to attend church and prayer with my cousins in Mexico when I visited them. They are Apostolic. Some Pentecostals also expect women to dress conservatively and cover their heads like Muslims do. Only their head scarfs are not as long and can be made out of lace.

 

Funny you should mention a "woman's place " a Christian relative admonished me a couple of months ago about my place as a woman in society. She also called me unAmerican and unpatriotic because I don't see anything wrong with the majority of Muslims and Islam.

She told me I should also stop further academic studies and find me a husband. Not to forget that I am to be passive and lady like. I was speechless which is really hard to do to me......or so they tell me. She is an elder family member, what am I to say to her? Nothing...................nothing at all. You are not suppose to talk back to an older family member.

 

Okay the through Islam title sounds like they are just passing through to something better. How about towards Islam instead.   You know I did read a book called Daughters of another path by Carol L. Anway. In which women chose to convert to Islam.

 

Natalia (real name)


Sasha

Jamshid: Now your turn

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 So it is now your turn. What religion are you from? Perhaps you don't have one after all? What is your agenda?  You know for someone who advocates that Islam likes to control women and thinks they are weak minded  you sure do treat me that way. Just a thougth? :o) Time to reflect a little. Don't you think so?

You want to talk about a domineering culture then let's talk about the Hispanic one shall we. Which by the way was converted to Christianity in the most brutal way by the Spaniards and other Europeans in the name of saving their immortal souls. Tribes were wiped out by these so called saviors.

Now, in the traditional Hispanic culture which still tends to exist in the US but is really bad the deeper you go into Mexico and Latin American coutries the man is the head of the household and he makes all decisions. No one makes a move without his approval. He controls the finances and decides how the woman is to behave. In the worst case scenarios if the woman objects the man will strike her  where she stands. Did I mention he gets to have a mistress if he can afford it?

Anyway, how do I know it is still going on in the US? I volunteer at  a nonprofit organization that runs a couple of women's shelters. They try to help women who have endured abuse at the hands of their husband or boyfriend. Sadly, the majority of the women I see are Hispanics.

Jamshid, they are not Muslims and they are not married to Muslims. They are married to so called Christians. Don't even get me started on the abuse I saw towards women growing up in my Hispanic neighborhood.

Jamshid there will always be good and bad in any religion and culture. You cannot over generalize. I know there are good Christian men because I see it in my brother, brother-in-law and so on.

By the way what does "mageh din ghahti bood?" mean? Thank you for the translation,

Natalia (real name)


jamshid

Re: old testament

by jamshid on

I am not a bit surprised. Mohamad copied half of Quran from Toraat. I would never believe in a god that would permit its followers to commit atrocities. Islam and Torat are both full of such stories. There are other religions however, that would never advocate such immoral acts. Why don't you take a look at those instead?

 

mageh din ghahti bood?


jamshid

Re: Rosie T.

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Rosie: "what I've just said is complete total bullshit and at the same time completely true...."

 

???!!! What??!

 

Lady do you see what I mean when I say you are not making any sense? Whatever happened to you?!


jamshid

Re: Natalia

by jamshid on

That sounds like a good title. However, I would make it "A woman's journey through Islam" instead of "to Islam", in order to cover those women that are already "in" Islam.

 

By the way, my vote on the title overrides yours, since according to Islam you are a woman and I am a man. Also, according to Mohamad, or was it Ali?, you being a female, have a weak mind, and therefore should leave decision making to men like me.

 

Sorry Natalia, but if you are thinking of conversion, you might as well start getting a crash course in Islam...

 

P.S. Before marriage, moslem die-hards don't tell you how it's done (like I am telling you now), until it's too late. They tell you all these sweet things about Islam and how women's right is protected and how they are all respected like in no other religion, etc. Just like Khomeini did during the revolution. When Iranian women realized how he had deceived them, it was too late to do anything about it. The same with moslem die hards men. After the marriage, all those sweet talkings about the woman's "place" in Islam will be replaced with the real truth about the woman's "place" in Islam.

 

I say this because I have seen it numerous time with Iranian, Turk and Arab men.

 


Sasha

Rosie T. : What have you been drinking? :o)

by Sasha on

 Rosie,

Now you know I had to say it. :o) I could not help but tease you.  What is all this talk about your gender?

Actually the reason I would not wear a Burqa would be because, I would get claustrophobic. I cannot stand to have my face covered. I also cannot stand to wear something on my head for very long periods of time (like all day) so wearing a head scarf all the time will not work for me. It will make me slightly anxious. However, I can wear it for prayer, the Masjid and certain Islamic events.

Natalia (real name)

PS:  By the way I am a proud TEXAN. Yehaw!!!! Girl/Dude I live in the Bible belt. It seems like there is a church on every corner. Talk to you all later.


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