my store is open to every one to come in and browse and stay and talk or buy any thing they want. but i have some rules and i expect any one who enters my store to behave according to those rules. it is my store and i set the rules. when i go to some other persons store i observe his rules. period. i feel the same when people come to my house as guests. i hate it when they start telling me how to run my house and life how to decorate and how to cook or when to eat or drink or talk and when to go to bed and all the other zahre maars. it is my house and if they don't like it guest or not they can get the hell out my house.  we are also guests in this site. we pay not a cent and we should not act like little brats and be rude to our hosts who work very hard to provide a place for us to meet and say what ever we feel like.