As some of you who know me are aware, I've just started dating this wonderful and beautiful woman who I will call maryam jan. I don't want to go into too much detail but every time I want to sit or lie down and relax maryan jan asks me what I am thinking about. It also happens just after making love. I am lying there trying to get my breath back, getting some oxygen into my tired body that I am asked the same question: what are you thinking about? The problem is that she doesn't believe me when I say I am thinking about nothing. I am very good at thinking about nothing. What does she thing I am thinking about? Don't women also think about nothing? don't they do that? I wish she wouldn't keep asking me that question.