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2005

February

2004

January

* She's had a busy past, but I love her
* I love my wife, but...

December

* I'm not big, but I'm in love

November

* She loves me, she loves me not

October

* I'm dying. Should I tell my wife?
* Why is she acting different?

September

* My daughter wants to fit
* I'm sexually depraved!

August

* Iranian men: Mama Boys?
* Heartbroken
* Arranged marriages

July

* Chat romance
* Love's best gift
* Leave us alone -- forever
* How do I let go?
* Prejudice against halfbreeds

June

* Should I meet him?
* Sex ruins friendship?
* He just stopped calling
* Luck knocks once?
* I like older women, too

May

* Is he using me, or...
* I like older women

April

* Meekhaam beekhiyaal sham
* Depression & driving
* Who is "najib" and who is not?
* April fools: Anyway, should I quit my job?

March

* Especially against Jews
* Abusive mother
* Sex & heroine

February

* Problem? We are both girls
* Role-play? Why?
* Marriage, the early days

January

* Looking for a friend
* Not something to mess around with
* No sweet romance
* She's giving me hints, but...

2003

December

* Lonely Christmas
* i cant tell her i love her
* I have turned to Islam
* I love to be loved
* Should I propose?

November

* Sigheh in Japan
* Chikaar konam aakhe?
* Me, mom and Freud
* Lola is stressed

October

* Ally McBeal eating disorder
* Never had a boyfriend
* Worried about sex
* Shunned like damaged goods

September

* Disoriented freshman
* Dad or the divorcee?
* I don't want to be a Swede. I want to go to Iran
* Strange behaviour

August

* Sleepless since 9/11
* What does he want from me?

July

* My husband's rude friends, Part 1 & 2
* Once a cheater
* I can't hold it forever!
* My Allah guide my gay son

June

* Cycle I cannot end
* Am I wrong to think this way?
* Sex outside of marriage. Why not.

May

* To be or not to be a cheer leader
* What are the odds?
* My friends think that I need to move on. But...

April

* One date wonder
* Women paying a price for independece?

March

* Office romance gone bad
* Too aggressive?
* "Iranian Club" in my high school?
* I like him. But he likes my best friend
* "Daste bi namak" really applies to me
* He's still in my thoughts

February

* Lost respect for girls -- and myself
* I'm a good catch damn it. What's his deal?!
* Abortion >>> depression
* White South African man, Iranian woman?

January

* I want him to fall in love with me -- and admit it
* He must be tall and handsome -- or not?
* Do I need experience before marriage?
* Is it bad for my health?
* Am I a pervert?
* When is the right time?

2002

December

* Materalistic Iranian men
* Okay to ask a man out?
* Can we be friends?

November

* My wife's pregnant, too soon?
* He's African-American. My dad's horrified
* Love on the internet?
* Who are we kidding here?

October

* Can't find a job. Should I move?
* Jewish-American-Persian
* So unique, so hopeless
* Dirty laundry

September

* At least two hours
* The first time I saw him
* Really "nice" boy
* Me & my best friend

August

* HE says it's normal
* Tired of being blamed

July

* She's lost her excitability
* Need experience?
* There is something else she won't tell me
* I don't want to hurt my parents
* He feels like home

June

* When is the right time?
* Madly in love with an Arab boy
* Am I being led astray?
* Divorce: Legal consequences

May

* She is still tough on me
* Wants us to divorce in Iran
* I'm proud to be a Red. My mom's not.
* THAT IS JUST NOT RIGHT!

April

* I think abortion is really morally wrong
* He's Jewish, I'm not
* I am not in love with him
* Charming, but insane

March

* If I'm so perfect, then why?
* I've lost track of myself
* Sexual compatiblity
* I don't like boys
* She can't say "I love you"
* She makes me jealous

February

* Before marriage
* Peer pressure
* Grumpy husband
* Does size matter?

January

* More cautious approach
* I am very afraid
* Secret love
* Is it harmful?
* Mixed signals

2001

* To dump or not to dump?
* Good deed/Huge commitment
* Speak your mind
* Just friends
* Should I come clean?
* Long-distance break up

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